Women

Well today let’s delve into a topic which is not usually discussed in any of our Blogs. That is women and the techniques to woo them & keep them interested. Well, there are no golden rules to attract a lady to oneself neither is there any particular secret of keeping her interested no matter how boring / irritating / ugly looking the concerned person is. But there are some basic things which are important irrespective of the physical attributes. I do not have experience regarding the same but this is my point of view.

1. Eye Contact: - Well this is an important thing to carry out in case you are interested in any girl. Eye contact has many advantages. It conveys that you are a genuine person, confident of yourself and self assured. Every girl likes a guy with the above traits. It is important there is sufficient eye contact and you glance away casually, DO NOT stare. Eye contact should be maintained while the other party is doing so and it should be stopped once the other person has turned away.
2. Be Natural: - It is natural to manipulate the way we behave and act in front of girls. However, the best way to make a girl fall for you is to be yourself. Because constant manipulating of oneself is like storing negative energy and one day when the girl knows of the real person, the relation is mostly likely to turn sour. It is necessary not to project something which is not the real you. This rule applies for taking the first step as well (i.e., talking to her, etc.). So, be yourself, be natural and the things would fall in place.
3. Listening: - Once the initial hurdles are cleared, of introducing and talking on a regular basis, the important point comes. It is now of utmost importance that you act as a sounding board for the person. The other person should have a friend, a good listener. Not one who is staring like he has not seen girls for ages. Listen to what she says and give some feedback / response to prove that you are listening. This is one of the best selling points for even the worst guys (and I also include total losers, no looks, no personality, no attributes to be considered as attractive). Listen, give feedback and the best of gals are yours.
4. Patience: - Patience is very important in a relationship. In many cases it is a deciding factor in making or breaking a relationship. Patience with temperaments is extremely testing. But patience is what makes the relationship work in the long run. Well generally one partner has to show more patience than the other, but it is worth the effort to make any relation work. Patience has to be exercised on a continual basis and by each partner.

So this is some of points I felt were important to make any relationship successful. These were strictly my point of views. You are free to disagree and argue I dun mind. However, this is a beginner’s guide to enter the world of tricky relations.